This is an odd choice for song two in this list. If you had asked me yesterday if this song would be the 2nd song in this list I would have said no.
Now it is not that I dislike this song but it is not one of my favorites. However on the way into work this morning Steph and I had a conversation about what it was like back in Jr. High School. Then later when this song came on I thought about that conversation. This is one of those songs that I associate heavily with Jr. High.
At first glance the fact that I associate this song with Jr. Hight might seem really odd considering that I was in grade-school when this song became a hit (Billboard #1 single Nov. 6 – 20 1982) It is mostly because I remember singing this song in chorus. In the school I went to chorus was a pretty big deal. It was not a thing just for geeks. In my class most of the cool kids and most of the smart kids were in chorus throughout Jr. High and High School. In fact if I remember correctly probably around 20% of the students in the school were in the chorus for my class, probably at least a quarter of the class were in the chorus.
Anyway, I remember singing this song it was one of the few ‘pop’ tunes that we allowed to sing by Barb our choir teacher. As I recall I think we even sung this at a concert or two. I’m sure someone did this as a duet at some point in time as well.
The song itself is culturally significant having appeared in the movie “An Officer and a Gentleman” and there are many references that have appeared over the years both to the song and to it’s appearance in the movie.
Aside from my reminiscent connection singing this song in school. I do enjoy this song. The lyrics are for the lack of a better word “uplifting” and as a true duet is fairly rare thing in pop music.
I have always been drawn to this songs melancholy yet bright melody and lyrics. Fundamentally a song mirroring the movie it came from about falling in love an opening ones self up.
The song which was produced in 1982 sounds exactly like the time it comes from. It is a good place to examine the sound of pop evolving from sound of the 70s into the sound that would typify the 80s. While not yet employing the synthesizers of the 80s the bright piano (which is heavily sustained) and bass guitar are processed to broaden the sound and open up the overall sound of the song. On the flip side there is a hint of high-hat cymbal and “chicka-wa-wa” throughout that is very reminiscent of 70s.
The Good: Piano in this piece is beautiful with a simple melody. Jenifer Warnes voice is beautiful.
The Bad: If you don’t like Joe Cocker’s voice probably not the song for you.
Why I have it: Because I remember singing it in Jr. High and hearing it at every wedding I’ve ever been to.
Why you should have it: Culturally significant. Again another wedding song.
Recommendation: Beside getting this song see the movie as well.